A mother wrote: “Yesterday, my four-year-old daughter, Luna, suddenly pulled my hair. Angrily, I yelled at her, ‘Stop!!!’ Instantly I knew I was wrong. She cried a lot. I consoled her for a good while. I felt bad about it.”
Yes, what a temptation for you to feel bad about yelling at your daughter.
How HORRIBLE of you. Oh, the shame.
But NO, that assessment of your behavior is actually wrong.
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